Inside the story Colorado rarely hears: Trauma, transition and the path back to truth
By Jen Schumann | Rocky Mountain Voice
“It took me almost two decades to realize the error,” Antoinette De La Cruz told a Fort Collins audience on November 20. “Transitioning didn’t fix anything. It delayed the inevitable. Healing.”
It was the first time many Coloradans had heard a detransitioner describe her path into transition, what it cost her and what brought her back.
Read RMV’s reporting on the event here.
Here she shared the fuller account of her story.
Where it began
De La Cruz said her transition began long before hormones or surgery. “I learned very young as a little girl that I was not valued as a woman, and I definitely was not safe as one,” she said. When she was seventeen she met someone who told her she could become a man. “I had no idea you could even do ...










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